Can we talk about “special needs proms?”
Can we talk about “special needs proms?” The photos I have seen from a recent event are beautiful. I am genuinely glad the people who attended had a great time. Joy matters . But joy in a separate space does not equal inclusion. A separate prom is still segregation, even when it is wrapped in kindness. If a community can come together to create a big, joyful event, it is worth asking why we cannot create that same joy with everyone, more often, in the actual community. Why is separation still the default instead of inclusion. I also understand the value of disability‑specific spaces. Programs like the Youth Leadership Forum are important because they build identity, leadership, and community among people who share lived experience. These spaces exist to empower people, not to replace access to the broader community. A prom is different. A prom is a community milestone that everyone should have access to. Creating a separate version does not build belonging. It replaces it. I...